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The Phone Free Reset Your Child Didn’t Know They Needed

  • Writer: Stephen Bean
    Stephen Bean
  • May 4
  • 4 min read

Updated: May 8


According to the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, kids ages 8–18 spend an average of 7.5 hours a day on screens (not including schoolwork). That's an astonishing amount of screentime, back in my day we would've considered that a full-time job (Just without the benefits).


Excessive screentime has been associated with:


  • Sleep Disruption

  • Increased Anxiety

  • Decreased Attention Span

  • Loneliness

  • Lower Self-Esteem


Camp doesn't just remove screens, it replaces them with a captivating all-encompassing experience.


The tangible experiences are vast every single day at camp.


Communication: Campers interact with each other constantly throughout the days. Learning to read facial expressions, tell stories, and share experiences with each other. It seems mundane, but a guttural laugh around the lunch table will always trump a laughing face emoji. Campers social growth is exponential at camp. They will live, laugh, and learn everyday. They will face conflict with friends and learn to navigate those situations with their words and problem solving skills. No longer can they just say something mean via text and retreat to their corner. Campers communication skills grow as does their emotional intelligence. They leave camp as more capable and mature individuals than how they arrived at camp.


Firsthand Experiences


There's not a lot of viewership for camp activities, everything is a firsthand experience. Campers don't spend countless hours watching someone else play Minecraft, they are in the weight room, on the field, in the gym, etc... Firsthand experiences that put them in the driver's seat. Showing each camper that life isn't limited to watching others do cool things. They can do cool things themselves! They are more capable than they ever previously thought. They themselves become content creators rather than consumers. They are in the driver's seat of doing interesting and captivating things that others would envy to experience.


Take a moment and think about this:


When was the last time your child went an entire day without their phone?


For most kids today, the answer is… never.


Between social media, texting, gaming, and streaming, screens have become a constant presence in their lives. And while technology isn’t inherently bad, something important is getting lost in the process.


That’s why one of the most powerful and overlooked parts of summer camp is simple:


It’s completely phone free outside of the phone times on Saturday.


Why This Matters More Than Parents Realize


Kids today aren’t just using their phones, they’re living on them.

And over time, that starts to impact:


  • Confidence

  • Social skills

  • Attention span

  • Willingness to try new things


When every moment can be documented, judged, or compared, kids often begin to play it safe.


They avoid discomfort. They avoid risk. They avoid growth.


Not because they don’t want to grow, but because they’re constantly being watched.


What Happens When the Phone Goes Away


At Camp New Heights, campers don’t have access to their phones outside of Saturday.


And something interesting happens almost immediately.


At first:


  • There’s hesitation

  • A little discomfort

  • Even some resistance


That’s normal.


But within a few days, things start to shift.


  • Conversations get easier

  • Laughter comes quicker

  • Friendships form faster

  • Campers become more present


Without a screen to retreat to, they start leaning into the world around them.

And that’s where growth begins.


Confidence You Can’t Get From a Screen


There’s a big difference between digital confidence and real confidence.


Digital confidence is:


  • Curated

  • Filtered

  • Controlled


Real confidence is:


  • Earned

  • Messy

  • Built through experience


At Camp New Heights, confidence comes from:


  • Trying something new and sticking with it

  • Participating in group challenges

  • Being part of a supportive community

  • Realizing, “I can actually do this”


That kind of confidence doesn’t disappear when camp ends.


Real Friendships, Not Just Connections


When kids are constantly on their phones, even when they’re together… they’re often not really together.


At camp, that changes.


Campers:


  • Sit together at meals and actually talk

  • Spend entire days side by side

  • Work through challenges as a team

  • Laugh without distractions


These aren’t quick interactions. They’re real relationships, the kind that stick long after summer ends.


A Reset That Actually Lasts


Here’s what makes camp different from just “taking away the phone at home”:

It’s not just subtraction, it’s replacement.


At Camp New Heights, campers don’t just lose screen time they gain:


  • Structured activity

  • Movement and energy

  • Social connection

  • Purpose in their day


They’re too engaged to miss their phones. More importantly, they start to realize:

They don’t need them as much as they thought.


Why This Is Especially Powerful for Our Campers


For many of our campers, screens aren’t just entertainment they’re a comfort zone.

A place to:


  • Avoid social pressure

  • Escape discomfort

  • Stay in control


But growth doesn’t happen in comfort zones. By removing screens and replacing them with a supportive, encouraging environment, campers are able to:


  • Step outside of old habits

  • Try new things without fear of judgment

  • Build real world confidence


And that’s where the transformation happens.


The Moment Everything Clicks


There’s always a moment during the summer when it clicks.

A camper who was hesitant on day one is now:


  • Leading a group activity

  • Laughing with friends

  • Fully engaged


And not once are they thinking about their phone.

That’s when you know something has changed.


A Break From Screens and So Much More


At Camp New Heights, being phone free isn’t the goal.

It’s the doorway. A doorway to:


  • Confidence

  • Connection

  • Independence

  • Healthier habits


It’s not just a break from screens. It’s a reset of how your child sees themselves and what they’re capable of.


Give Your Child the Reset They Need


Your child won’t remember every text they sent this summer.

But they will remember:


  • The friendships they built

  • The challenges they overcame

  • The confidence they discovered


And it all starts with one simple shift:


Putting the phone away and stepping into something real.




 
 
 

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