The Phone Free Reset Your Child Didn’t Know They Needed
- Stephen Bean
- May 4
- 4 min read
Updated: May 8
According to the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, kids ages 8–18 spend an average of 7.5 hours a day on screens (not including schoolwork). That's an astonishing amount of screentime, back in my day we would've considered that a full-time job (Just without the benefits).
Excessive screentime has been associated with:
Sleep Disruption
Increased Anxiety
Decreased Attention Span
Loneliness
Lower Self-Esteem
Camp doesn't just remove screens, it replaces them with a captivating all-encompassing experience.
The tangible experiences are vast every single day at camp.
Communication: Campers interact with each other constantly throughout the days. Learning to read facial expressions, tell stories, and share experiences with each other. It seems mundane, but a guttural laugh around the lunch table will always trump a laughing face emoji. Campers social growth is exponential at camp. They will live, laugh, and learn everyday. They will face conflict with friends and learn to navigate those situations with their words and problem solving skills. No longer can they just say something mean via text and retreat to their corner. Campers communication skills grow as does their emotional intelligence. They leave camp as more capable and mature individuals than how they arrived at camp.
Firsthand Experiences
There's not a lot of viewership for camp activities, everything is a firsthand experience. Campers don't spend countless hours watching someone else play Minecraft, they are in the weight room, on the field, in the gym, etc... Firsthand experiences that put them in the driver's seat. Showing each camper that life isn't limited to watching others do cool things. They can do cool things themselves! They are more capable than they ever previously thought. They themselves become content creators rather than consumers. They are in the driver's seat of doing interesting and captivating things that others would envy to experience.
Take a moment and think about this:
When was the last time your child went an entire day without their phone?
For most kids today, the answer is… never.
Between social media, texting, gaming, and streaming, screens have become a constant presence in their lives. And while technology isn’t inherently bad, something important is getting lost in the process.
That’s why one of the most powerful and overlooked parts of summer camp is simple:
It’s completely phone free outside of the phone times on Saturday.
Why This Matters More Than Parents Realize
Kids today aren’t just using their phones, they’re living on them.
And over time, that starts to impact:
Confidence
Social skills
Attention span
Willingness to try new things
When every moment can be documented, judged, or compared, kids often begin to play it safe.
They avoid discomfort. They avoid risk. They avoid growth.
Not because they don’t want to grow, but because they’re constantly being watched.
What Happens When the Phone Goes Away
At Camp New Heights, campers don’t have access to their phones outside of Saturday.
And something interesting happens almost immediately.
At first:
There’s hesitation
A little discomfort
Even some resistance
That’s normal.
But within a few days, things start to shift.
Conversations get easier
Laughter comes quicker
Friendships form faster
Campers become more present
Without a screen to retreat to, they start leaning into the world around them.
And that’s where growth begins.
Confidence You Can’t Get From a Screen
There’s a big difference between digital confidence and real confidence.
Digital confidence is:
Curated
Filtered
Controlled
Real confidence is:
Earned
Messy
Built through experience
At Camp New Heights, confidence comes from:
Trying something new and sticking with it
Participating in group challenges
Being part of a supportive community
Realizing, “I can actually do this”
That kind of confidence doesn’t disappear when camp ends.
Real Friendships, Not Just Connections
When kids are constantly on their phones, even when they’re together… they’re often not really together.
At camp, that changes.
Campers:
Sit together at meals and actually talk
Spend entire days side by side
Work through challenges as a team
Laugh without distractions
These aren’t quick interactions. They’re real relationships, the kind that stick long after summer ends.
A Reset That Actually Lasts
Here’s what makes camp different from just “taking away the phone at home”:
It’s not just subtraction, it’s replacement.
At Camp New Heights, campers don’t just lose screen time they gain:
Structured activity
Movement and energy
Social connection
Purpose in their day
They’re too engaged to miss their phones. More importantly, they start to realize:
They don’t need them as much as they thought.
Why This Is Especially Powerful for Our Campers
For many of our campers, screens aren’t just entertainment they’re a comfort zone.
A place to:
Avoid social pressure
Escape discomfort
Stay in control
But growth doesn’t happen in comfort zones. By removing screens and replacing them with a supportive, encouraging environment, campers are able to:
Step outside of old habits
Try new things without fear of judgment
Build real world confidence
And that’s where the transformation happens.
The Moment Everything Clicks
There’s always a moment during the summer when it clicks.
A camper who was hesitant on day one is now:
Leading a group activity
Laughing with friends
Fully engaged
And not once are they thinking about their phone.
That’s when you know something has changed.
A Break From Screens and So Much More
At Camp New Heights, being phone free isn’t the goal.
It’s the doorway. A doorway to:
Confidence
Connection
Independence
Healthier habits
It’s not just a break from screens. It’s a reset of how your child sees themselves and what they’re capable of.
Give Your Child the Reset They Need
Your child won’t remember every text they sent this summer.
But they will remember:
The friendships they built
The challenges they overcame
The confidence they discovered
And it all starts with one simple shift:
Putting the phone away and stepping into something real.



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